My childhood ...

Being the oldest of three daughters, I was the "example" for my sisters. We were very sheltered, and never were aware of the problems of being brought up in the Great Depression. Being a Golden Eaglet Girl Scout, I went to camp from the time I was 10 until I was 16 years old. I started packing my suitcase the day school let out, even though I was not going until the first week of August! At the time, camp cost $8.50 a week, and it was a real privilege to be able to go.

My parents were very strict, not very demonstrative, but there when we really needed help.

My father didn't think girls needed a college education, consequently, I had just the basics when I went looking for a job after graduation in 1938. Having a speech impediment was another reason my father didn't think I could make it thru college. Little did he know that it made me more compassionate toward others than he, himself ever was. Some of his ridicule still burns in my memory. Other than that, he was a good father. Many fathers of the era were traditional, not prone to giving affection, but help when needed. Stern and unbending but tender with my mother, never raising a hand to us unless we really misbehaved, but we all knew THE LOOK and took notice!

   

From left, Lila (9 yrs) & sisters
Ginger (5) & Gladys (7)
- 1929

 

Lila's sisters Ginger & Gladys - 1997


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